We could compose them poems or write them love songs, but at the end of the day, verbal communication just isn\u2019t enough. Pets love listening to us talk, but for them actions speak way louder than words. And it doesn\u2019t even have to be a huge grand gesture like throwing them a birthday party or buying them something expensive \u2014in fact, what pets really notice are the little things we do in everyday life.<\/p>\n
What you want to say:<\/p>\n
How to say it:<\/strong><\/p>\n Put your phone down and make nice, long eye contact with your pet, giving them your full focus. For dogs, a long gaze with their owners actually releases oxytocin, the happiness hormone that promotes bonding. You brain has the same reaction too, which is a nice bonus. As for cats, a long, slow look with super slow blinks is actually the greatest sign of affection that they can give each other or humans.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n What you want to say:<\/p>\n How to say it:<\/p>\n When you get home from work, does your canine run up to you and joyfully go into a downward dog position? That\u2019s what we call a \u201cplay bow\u201dand responding to this invite is a big deal. Play is a dog\u2019s #1 language of love \u2014 it helps with bonding and provides the physical and mental stimulation they crave, especially if you know their preferred play style<\/a>. While you\u2019re at it, an extra-long walk after work is always appreciated too. What about the kitties? For them dinner may be a way higher priority, but make sure to give them some quality time as well, whether that means a hang-out on the couch or a little interactive play.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n What you want to say:<\/p>\n How to say it:<\/p>\n Having a pack is important to dogs. When they lean into your side or against your leg, it\u2019s their way of saying, \u201cI\u2019m with you.\u201d Leaning in to snuggle them back lets them know you feel the exact same way. Another way to confirm your pack status? Taking a nice nap together after playtime (after all, it\u2019s what puppies do). With cats, it\u2019s a little different. They\u2019re solitary creatures, but they do like to create a group scent with everyone in their household \u2014 kind of like exchanging friendship bracelets, but weirder. In fact, that’s what they’re doing when they butt their head and rub their body against you. By petting their head and encouraging this behavior, you show that you\u2019re glad they picked you too.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n What you want to say:<\/p>\n How to say it:<\/p>\n To really make your pet feel secure and loved, there\u2019s nothing like imitating the maternal touches that puppies and kittens receive at birth. For dogs, that means nice, gentle belly rubs, ear scratches and massages. Just like the gazing mentioned above, petting releases oxytocin and increases your bond. For cats, gentle petting is great too, but concentrate on their head and neck. That\u2019s where their mother would have licked them, and full body petting can really irritate many cats. And hey, don\u2019t be ashamed of using baby talk \u2014 it turns out that both dogs and cats actually prefer it and pay more attention when we use it.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n What you want to say:<\/p>\n How to say it:<\/p>\n Know your pet\u2019s dislikes and respect their boundaries. They hate dressing up in costumes? Don\u2019t do it. They dislike crowds and loud noises? Avoid those situations. They don\u2019t enjoy strangers? Don\u2019t make them interact. This is all especially important for cats, who can be much more sensitive and attuned to changes in their environment. In fact, keeping your cat\u2019s litterbox clean and giving them kitty furniture to explore and scratch is probably one of the best feline ways to say \u201cI love you.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n We answered 7 questions pet owners wish they could ask their dogs.<\/p>\n Learn more <\/a>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n REFERENCES<\/strong><\/p>\n Pet MD<\/a> We could compose them poems or write them love songs, but at the end of the day, verbal communication just isn\u2019t enough. 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We\u2019re a team, I\u2019ve got your back.<\/h4>\n<\/div>\n
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I just want to make you happy.<\/h4>\n<\/div>\n
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